Dont Feel Like a Prick?
Not so much. Ignore the siren call of phone alerts during an in-person conversation. The cart corral is so far away. We get it. Most service staff wear name tags so you really have no excuse for not acknowledging them by name. The two seconds it takes to hold it open for the next person is well worth it.
Talking loudly into your bluetooth headset or putting your phone on speaker while shopping, riding the bus, or in a restaurant is a surefire way to make everyone around you hate you. No one wants to hear your private conversations; that is what texting is for.
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Your handshake can reveal telling things about your personality, but anyone will judge a grasp that cuts off circulation. There is a difference between having a firm grip and causing bodily harm with a handshake. Skip links Skip to content Skip to footer. Share on Facebook. Yet when it comes to obsessional focus on others' flaws and imperfections, instead of looking outward like a certain fault-finding judge on American Idol, you might decide to hold up a mirror to yourself and mentally inventory where you miss the mark.
Let passive-aggressiveness gently waft out a bathroom window.
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Here jerkness is nearly silent-but-deadly with obnoxiously audible sighs accompanying a refusal to budge on any issue. As you sit on the sidelines in sadistic satisfaction of others' frustrations that take root from your pointed action or inaction , you might ask yourself: "Why must I be such a dick?
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Grow a pair of perspectives. In other words, take a telescopic view of your situation. When errant soccer balls fly through your yard, is the cost in blood pressure and heart attack risk really worth the righteous anger? They're kids for goodness sake! Maybe now might be high time to extract yourself from a default position as "selfish grump" and expand your view of the situation.
Perhaps you might then recognize your good fortune that the nuisance next door represents developmentally appropriate play rather than blasts of gunfire from drive-by shootings. Kids need to play outside.
Don’t pretend you didn’t see your dog poop on the sidewalk.
They are the future. Let them be.
Be real. No one likes a faker. Especially a bad faker. If your jerkness far outweighs a natural inclination for acting sweetly, you won't fool anybody with that sham smile.
Dont Feel Like a Prick?
Admit you're a jerk already and move on to point number six. Ask for help. While essential that the jerk in question come to greater levels of understanding of himself by himself, there's nothing like a few frank words from a trusted friend to pierce self-deception like a fork into the vinyl flesh of an inflatable doll.
Conjure your role models. By this I mean to summon the image, mentally, of those whose words or actions you may be unintentionally adopting as your own. Perhaps after a quick examination you find you sound just like your "ditto head" cousin who parrots any hateful pabulum he hears on the radio.
Like so called "day residue" appearing in dreams, you may find that personal experiences-stretching from an unwashed childhood to yesterday's heinous staff meeting--leave behind lees as from a cup of loose tea. Today, instead of brewing bitterness, you might choose instead to pro-actively wash your kettle-in other words, center yourself and refresh your mind with the possibility of a new day and a fresh, open attitude. Figure out what makes you feel good. It doesn't take a Joseph Campbell, a clinical psychologist, or a screening of the film Shortbus to realize that you hold the key to your own bliss.
Frustration, disappointment and dissatisfaction are but morsels of food specifically formulated to cultivate jerkness. Turn this on its head by paying closer attention to what ideas, activities, and successes-including minor ones--engender good feelings in yourself. When you walk around with a glow, the jerk inside will wither and die like a blood-starved vampire at midday. Have a little humility. Even when you score in some way-at work, at school, at home, at the club-others will appreciate your enthusiasm more when it is paired with some measure of class.
Even winners can be jerks and especially so when they use a particular success to blanket over other shortcomings. What you just accomplished may be great e. Share something! Finally, I would entreat you to give something to someone something other than genital warts or a splitting headache. You can quickly reverse an acute bout of jerkdom by earnestly giving a treat, a thoughtful word, or a moment of your time to someone you know would be receptive to such a gift from you.
Heartfelt action when practiced regularly has a way of crowding out opportunities for jerk-behavior. And should the time come that a stray comment comes out of your mouth-something only a real jerk would utter-you may be more easily forgiven for a momentary lapse of good sense because of how anomalous such behavior has become. Good article. No really, I mean it. I read things I do I tend to keep my mouth shut and don't do conjuring my role model. I came to a recent conclusion that one of my parents suffers from narcissistic personality disorder.
I have recently seperated from them completely because there is no pleasing this kind of "jerk". The "sweet" seemed to override the sour too many times because I allowed it. It caused me, as a child, and as an adult heartache, bad relationships, and a very sad estrangement from my sibling.
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Sometimes you have to avoid a jerk and then try not to be one yourself. If you've been an asshole long enough you've already alienated the people who may have been receptive to this. I know because I am a king-hell, dyed-in-the-wool, first class A-hole and I have no friends and nobody with whom to have a conversation such as this. So, nice try Jeremy. Good luck with that medical school student loan debt. Well, youre either a troller,or seeking help for urself. You wouldn't be here for any other reason. Thank you for this.
I appreciate alil slap in the face truth. The problem is, I think I'm too far gone.
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